Choose and Reach Your Goals with Paine and Oprah Power (POP)

A few days ago, January 29th, both Thomas Paine and Oprah Winfrey shared a birthday. The contrast of these two people immediately struck me as funny. I’m willing to bet that most Americans don’t know who Thomas Paine was but everyone knows Oprah. Yet with the writing of Common Sense and The American Crisis among others, Thomas Paine was one of the main sparks, inspiration and motivation behind America’s freedom; in fact I think it could be argued that we might not be free without him. Oprah, in contrast, although influential due to the ubiquity and syndication of television, is just a talk show host who will not impart as influential an impact on humanity as Paine. But then I realized what a powerful combination these two would be and that you could greatly improve your life, particularly your goal setting and achievement, with a little Paine and Oprah Power (POP)!

Paine was a master of the mind. With his writing, Paine explored and explained the abstract ideals of freedom and the rights of man which were used as a basis for both the American and French Revolutions. These ideas literally changed the direction of these Countries and in turn influences all of humanity. Thomas Edison said of Paine’s great mind, “never have we had a sounder intelligence in this republic” and “Paine’s works are a crystallization of acute human reasoning”.

Oprah is the master of the emotions. Her fame and fortune is founded on the tabloid talk-show format where if there wasn’t a tear, it wasn’t a complete show. She starting working in TV news but, according to Wikipedia, her “emotional ad-lib delivery eventually got her transferred to the daytime talk show arena”. Now to be fair, today Oprah’s shows are not so completely drenched in emotion but it’s safe to say that she wears her emotions on her sleeve.

Many stories and movies have played off the idea of a small, street-smart guy teaming up with a big, strong, dumb guy and the first guy saying something like “with your brawn and my brains we can really go places”. Well the variation here is that with Paine’s mind and Oprah’s emotions you can really accomplish a lot.

We’re meant to think with our mind and emote with our emotions. However, most people “think” with their emotions. They state what they like or don’t like and make decisions based on how something “feels”. They substitute opinion for thought. Thinking involves reason and logic. If stopped by a TV reporter on the street and asked about the state of the economy, the emotion-based person will state how they feel and how they’re impacted by the economy but the thinking person would say that they don’t know anything about the economy (assuming they have not studied it) and that the reporter should ask an economist.

How to Reach Your Goals with Paine and Oprah Power (POP)

With this background I can now give you the steps to choosing and reaching your goals with POP, Paine and Oprah Power!

1. The fist step, and this a main point to POP, is to understand that the mind should come before the emotions. In other words thought comes first and the emotions follow. And more precisely the emotions are to support thought. Emotions are like the cheerleader that supports thought with enthusiasm! Paine conceives the idea and Oprah follows with the pom-poms (after all Oprah seems to be a good cheerleader for Barak Obama and his Presidential campaign.)

2. Use your mind (Paine power) to establish what goals you want to pursue. Most of us “think” we want to pursue the goals of getting rich or losing weight however these are typically emotion-based goals, actually they’re wishes, that appeal to our petty selves and are intended to make us feel better or more secure. Instead we should think through our goals and settle on some that will better suit our actual lives. Mostly likely the best goals to pursue are things like improving our self-discipline and dedication so we don’t slack off at work, bettering our patience and tolerance so we’re not stressing out over minor inconveniences or strengthening our goodwill and cheer so we can minimize our dour moods. So, to help pick more enlightened goals, ask yourself:

• What type of negative moods (i.e. annoyance, depression, impatience, anger, bitterness, etc.) do you often find yourself? Decide to make the expression of their antidote your goal; so cheerfulness overcomes depression, tolerance supersedes anger and patience supplants impatience.
• Do you have problems staying motivated, focused and dedicated at work? Choose make being more productive and dedicated a goal.
• Could you be contributing more goodwill, compassion or tolerance to your relationships?
• Are there any skill or talents that you should improve to make your self more productive?
• What projects should you get involved in that would be more about contributing to others than gaining for yourself?

3. Use your emotions (Oprah power) to “get behind” the thought-filled goals you decide to pursue. This is where the emotions shine. Build up an enthusiasm and excitement for these goals by imagining how your life will be improved when these goals are reached. Imagine the positive impact they’ll have on your family, friends and co-workers. See how your accomplishments will be an example for others to follow. Consider the impact that your more enlightened goals, particularly the productive work you do, will benefit society. Allow yourself to be excited about being “being a force of Nature” which, as George Bernard Shaw says is “the true joy in life“.

To Your Enlightened Goals,
Brendan

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